Best relationship site I've come across

ReddyMcMeaty · Best relationship site I've come across

You don't have to be married.
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/index.html

barb0324

I just saw this, among other things. Did you actually read what he says about codpendency? Interesting. Cool

ReddyMcMeaty

I did, and while it makes a lot of sense, in general I found the way he promotes only doing things together totally suffocating.

barb0324

Maybe interdependence would be a better word. if I'm in a relationship I do want to be able to rely on the partner or else why have one. Trust is key I think. Without it there is no hope.

I'm def no mother teresa lol.

adwred

I need to find a site that recommends alone time.

ReddyMcMeaty

well exactly... trust does not mean keeping tabs on your partner at all times. It means trusting that they're being honest with you about what they need, what they want, and what they're doing ... and even if you don't know what they're doing at a given moment, trusting that they're not breaking your established rules.

adwred

Totally agree, Meg - needing to be together at all times and needing to keep tabs on everything is just showing you have no trust in your partner, which is probably the most demoralizing thing in a relationship.

barb0324

I did have that with my husband but its very hard to find emotionally secure men nowadays.once trust is broken. Very hard to regain

Or is it me. Heh. Don't answer that. rollingeyes

Dustyboy

My wife is the single most jealous woman on the planet, If she heard me say that she would kill me in my sleep. Shock

ReddyMcMeaty

uhoh. Does that mean we shouldn't hit on you here for fear of your life?

barb0324

And how would we have proof she killed him in his sleep? We never know if folks just drop out or die or whatever ... maybe you could leave a letter with a good friend to notify us, or something?

PS - I really hate when people just disappear from my life.... seriously it causes me much grief. Sad

Dustyboy

I am trying to remember the exact instance but can't, I recall her getting mad at me over a fictional character.

barb0324

She sounds familiar ... Laugh

Dustyboy

There is an 80 year old woman that works in my office, I once mentioned that she gave me diet coke or something and she was furious with me.

Dustyboy

As far as this forum goes, I do this at work during down times. I have noticed that more women are using their faces as their avitar and I know for sure that this will get me killed. Shock

ReddyMcMeaty

ReddyMcMeaty

I was just accused of wanting to learn guitar so I can sing in pubs and be on the meat market and have all of the german men hitting on me. Every single last one of them. Laugh

Dustyboy

Nine years of bliss right honey? I have never cheated, she says she trusts me completely she just doesn't trust the octogenarian secretary where I work.

barb0324

.. and you deny it??? ROTFL

Carnation

Yep, that's what I was thinking all along with you and your guitar lessons. It's so obvious. Laugh

Dustyboy

Carnation

Dusty, I took my avatar down just to protect you!

Dustyboy

Are you in Germany? There are a couple of people from Germany in here.....must...bite...tung. Are you from there or is a military thing?

Dustyboy

Thanks Carnation. I will sleep soundly tonight.

ReddyMcMeaty

I'm in Germany, my husband is German (I'm Canadian) and he picked me up whilst working abroad for Siemens.

Dustyboy

however you do have a freaky tree porn pic up now, that could get me in some hot water too.

Dustyboy

God bless all of the Canadians and Germans on this forum, I love you all.

Dustyboy

Carnation, I read on another thread that you are an editor. What do you edit?

Carnation

I wouldn't go so far as to say that I'm an editor. I edit the bottom of the barrel junk that nobody else wants to do, usually company handbooks, rules and regs sort of thing. It's a real snorefest, but I need the side income. Nothing as glamorous as editing a newspaper.

Dustyboy

Ha ha ha, you know I kinda want kill myself every couple of days. Particularly on deadline day (no pun intended) have you ever thought to yourself "It would really suck to die right now, but on the bright side no one can make me write if I'm dead" That is me every Tuesday morning.

adwred

I'll take your wife on! I'm not afraid. And you know what? Throw that octogenarian in there, too. I like a good old lady fight.

ReddyMcMeaty

Carnation

Geriatricat fight! Cheer

Dustyboy

Look at all of the red headed energetic Canadians! I may have to renounce my citizenship and come live among you with you ice fishing and beaver tailed pastries.

adwred

Hey Dusty, are you still zero-carbing and loving it?

Dustyboy

'm a lumberjack and I'm okay
I sleep all night and I work all day
He's a lumberjack and he's okay
He sleeps all night and he works all day

I cut down trees, I eat my lunch
I go to the lavat'ry
On Wednesdays I go shopping
And have buttered scones for tea
He cuts down trees...
He's a lumberjack...

I cut down trees, I skip and jump
I love to press wild flow'rs
I put on women's clothing
And hang around in bars
He cuts down trees...
He's a lumberjack...

I cut down trees, I wear high heels
Suspendies and a bra
I wish I'd been a girlie
Just like my dear papa
He cuts down trees...
He's a lumberjack...

ReddyMcMeaty

Energetic, there's a way to put it! We're trying to figure out the best place for our all female redheaded carnivorous commune where we can live together and knit exciting underwear and grow our own livestock.

adwred

And build a forest gym!!

barb0324

Dustyboy

And another Monty Python fan, where do you people come from? Everyone in the state of Arkansas hates Monty Python but me, and yet everyone here loves it.

ReddyMcMeaty

That is why we're here, to copulate, er congregate with other great minds.

Dustyboy

Dustyboy

I should be discouraging this kind of sexual harrasment.... you know I am a fireman right?

adwred

I have a fire you can help put out, Dusty.

Dustyboy

Why do I feel like Chris Hansen is going to break my door down any minute?

adwred

What?

I'm talking about the bushes! There's a bush. On fire. Down by the Y.

ReddyMcMeaty

just when I go to bed too

Dustyboy

Me: "hello"
Chris Hansen: "are you dustyboy?"
Me: "yes"
CH: "what are you doing here?"
Me: "I don't really know I was told there was a fire"
CH: "In the bushes by the Y"
Me: "yeah thats it"
CH: "what does that mean?"
Me: "Im not sure sir I think its a Canadian thing"
CH: "I think you are a pervert"
Me: "No I swear I did not do anything it is just a forum about meat"
CH: "you are sick"

20 seconds later

Me: "officer the cuffs are hurting me"

Dustyboy

I know, I know that show is about adults picking up on under age girls or boys.

adwred

Please tell me someone gets my 'fire bush down by the Y' joke, other than Meg.

Dustyboy

I get it, it just scares me a little.

adwred

Well, fine, I guess I'll have to find another fireman to help me with my flaming bush.

Dustyboy

I'm sorry. I have let my firefighting brethren down today. Embarassed

ReddyMcMeaty

I'm always willing to help you with that kind of thing Red

Dustyboy

Dirty girls.

adwred

I'm actually not that dirty. What can I say? You bring it out in me, Dusty!!

adwred

Meg, how can you help me when you probabably also have a smouldering shrub of your own?